In our lives, it's easy to get caught up in routines that prioritize tasks over relationships. Yet, real growth happens when we focus on people instead of programs. That shift builds stronger, more meaningful connections that impact lives long-term. Whether it's in a personal moment with a friend or while serving in a church group, investing in others can create lasting change.

This idea is deeply reflected in a message shared by Pastor Josh Baird. He reminds us that Jesus’ way was always about people. By zeroing in on the few instead of the many, Jesus created a movement that still changes lives today. The heart of discipleship is personal investment. As Pastor Josh explained, it's not about popularity or hosting the biggest event. It’s about saying “yes” to building real relationships.

So as you read, think about your own life. Are you chasing programs or growing deep with people? This simple mindset shift can transform your friendships, your home, and your faith.

Jesus' Method: People Over Programs

Jesus didn’t start with a massive program or campaign. He started with a handful of ordinary people. That personal approach highlights just how powerful it is to slow down and invest intentionally.

1. Focusing on a Few

Jesus didn’t try to reach everyone at once. He focused on the twelve disciples. These were the ones He spent the most time with, taught the most directly, and poured His heart into. The goal wasn’t to gather as many people as He could. It was about going deep with the few He trusted to carry on His mission.

2. Proximity and Connection

Jesus didn’t search far and wide for disciples. Many came from His own town or even His extended family. That tells us something valuable: the people we’re called to invest in are often already in our lives. Think friends, coworkers, classmates, and family members. We don't need to overcomplicate it.

3. Depth Over Breadth

Jesus showed us that serious transformation happens when you take the time to really know someone. He didn’t settle for surface-level conversations. He went deep, asked questions, listened closely, and walked with His disciples through their highs and lows. That level of relationship is what creates lasting spiritual growth.

This method of choosing people over programs still works today. If we want to make a difference, we should stop worrying about reaching crowds and start building into the lives right in front of us.

Relational Evangelism: A Lifestyle, Not an Event

When most people hear “evangelism,” they might picture a big event or a bold preacher. But the way Jesus lived showed a different picture. His ministry was woven into everyday moments. Whether it was a walk, a meal, or a visit to someone’s home, He used those times to love and teach others.

Relational evangelism is about living your faith in ways that naturally fit into daily life. It means being kind and present in your conversations, showing up when someone needs help, or taking a moment to ask deeper questions. One good example is sharing a lunch break with a coworker and opening up about how your faith impacts your life. You don’t need a microphone or a stage. Just be real and available.

The key difference is this: programs reach people for a moment. Relationships reach people for a lifetime.

By making faith a part of how you relate to others every day, you become a walking example of Jesus’ love. That message sticks more than any flyer or social post ever could.

The Power of Multiplication in Discipleship

Here’s where it gets exciting. When you focus on just a few people, and they do the same, something special happens: multiplication. One person becomes two. Two become four. Before long, the whole community is growing in faith, all because you took time to invest in someone else.

Look at how Jesus’ effort with twelve people spread across the world. That wasn’t luck. It was the result of teaching them deeply, praying for them often, and encouraging them to share with others.

Prayer plays a big role in this process too. When you’re praying for someone consistently, it changes your heart toward them. It builds a deeper care and awareness of what they’re going through. That prayer creates a strong connection, both spiritually and practically.

So even if it seems small at first, never underestimate the reach of one relationship done well. That one person you poured into could be the one who helps someone else come to know God.

Practical Steps to Implement Relational Evangelism

You might be wondering how to get started. Good news—it’s simple, and you don’t need special training. Just a heart to connect and the willingness to be led.

1. Take Initiative

Think of three people in your life that you’d like to grow closer to. Maybe they’re already in your friend group or someone you’ve been meaning to reach out to. Start by praying for them regularly and asking God to help guide your conversations.

2. Build Relationships

Look for ways to meet in a relaxed setting. It can be something as easy as inviting them for coffee or a walk. The goal is to create space where real conversations can happen without pressure.

3. Share Faith

This doesn’t mean giving a speech. Just talk about your day-to-day life and include how your faith plays a part in it. Maybe mention a prayer you prayed or how a Bible verse helped you through something. Keep it natural.

4. Foster Community

Invite them into activities where they can meet others who are walking a similar path. Whether it’s coming to church with you or joining a small group, these shared experiences build deeper connections.

The trick is not to force anything—just be open, available, and real. Small moments often lead to the biggest changes.

Embrace a People-Centered Approach at Love Church

At Love Church, this mindset is at the center of everything. People come first. We believe that long-term impact happens through strong, trusting relationships. Whether you're new to faith or just looking to reconnect, there’s always a place for you to grow and build with others.

This way of living creates a community that feels closer and more meaningful. Everyone matters, and every story is valued. When we show up for each other consistently and care deeply about each other’s faith journeys, the whole church becomes stronger.

You'll find that when people feel genuinely seen and supported, they thrive. They step into their purpose. They welcome others with open arms. They carry the mission forward.

As you live this out, whether at work, at home, or in your neighborhood, keep remembering the example Jesus set. Choose to go deep. Focus on the few. Invest fully. You never know the ripple effect your next conversation could start.

As you explore ways to deepen your connections and build meaningful relationships, consider engaging with the Love Church community. Join us for upcoming events where you can experience the Church Brotherhood firsthand and be part of something inspiring. There's a place for everyone, and we invite you to be part of this welcoming community.